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With a custody order, parents or single parents have the opportunity to arrange in advance who should represent their minor children as guardians after their death. In this case, a guardian is appointed in the form of a so-called testamentary disposition, i.e. by will or inheritance contract.

If there is no custody order, this is decided by the court, but always in the best interests of the child. However, even in the case of a custody order, the court decides whether the named person is suitable as a guardian. However, the court can only deviate from the custody order if there are reasonable doubts about the suitability of the proposed person.

With the custody order, you can not only appoint persons and a substitute guardian for the child representation, but also explicitly exclude persons from guardianship.

Before you name a guardian in your custody order, you should talk to them about it and inform them. Furthermore, children who have reached the age of 14 can oppose the custody order. In order to protect the interests of all parties involved, you should therefore regularly update the custody order and adapt it to the changing circumstances.

The custody order can also be combined. In addition to appointing a guardian, you can also lay down specific requirements for the management of inherited assets and separate guardianship from custody and divide it among different persons.

In order for your custody order to be implemented after death, it is particularly important that it can be found. You have various options for keeping the custody order: In addition to keeping it with the possible guardian, there is the possibility of placing the custody order in the form of a will in special official custody at the probate court for a fee.

The basic prerequisite for drafting a custody order is that you as the author have custody and thus legally have a right of designation. In addition, the designated guardian must be of legal age.

Since you can only deposit the custody order with the probate court in the form of a testamentary disposition (e.g. will) and the custody order is legally a special type of will, certain formalities must be complied with for the legal validity of the document. These would be, for example:

• the legal guardians must write and sign the order themselves
• the legal guardians should sign with first and last names
• the custody order should be provided with place and date

Hint: You can also seek advice from notaries or lawyers when drafting a custody order.

As with any acceptance of a disposition of property upon death in special official custody, a fixed fee of 75 euros is incurred.

• You draw up a custody order in the form of a will and talk to the named guardian and your child about it.
• You take the original custody order and take it to the probate court.
• There, the acceptance of the order is recorded.
• You will then receive a notice of costs for the custody fee as well as a depositary receipt.
• After payment of the fee, your custody order in the form of a will will will be kept at the probate court and can therefore be found safely in the event of death.

Note: In addition to the possibility of consulting with the notary, he can also take over the submission of the custody order to the probate court for you.

Other

There are forms and models of custody orders, so you are given a formulation aid, and you can also better comply with the formalities that are placed on a custody order.

Please note, however, that the custody order must be handwritten!

The custody order is valid until the child mentioned therein is of legal age and the custody order expires. If you wish to revoke the custody order, you must notify the probate court and request the return from special official custody.

After more than 30 years in official custody, the custodian determines ex officio whether the custodian is still alive and thus at the same time whether there is still a need to maintain the special custody of the custody order.

Note that children who have reached the age of 14 may oppose the custody order.
 

The district court as probate court (in the case of special official custody).